We love the intergenerational aspect of this story. Naomi and her grandmother have a lot to teach one another, and Naomi's cousins all help Bubbe prepare as well. Bubbe also tells Naomi about the evolution of bat mitzvahs, adding an incredible and fascinating historical aspect to their story. Overall, we cannot recommend this book enough. It's a sweet, touching way to honor and appreciate Bat Mitzvahs and family members of every age.
In celebration of Bubbe's Belated Bat Mitzvah, we've included a book trailer and guest post from the author below! Pick up a copy for your family here or at your local Judaica store!
"I never intended to write a children’s book – it happened quite by accident.
My mother, Esther Silverman, at the age of 95 was studying to become a Bat Mitzvah when I was asked if I would write a children’s story about the event. My “instructions” were to include a multi-generational theme and of course the Bat Mitzvah itself. I am a preschool librarian and I’ve read hundreds of picture books over the years and I can sense when a story will entice and engage. Keeping those story elements in mind, I decided to give it a try.
The first draft was very sentimental – no, that wouldn’t do. I rewrote it and asked a Middle School English teacher for her thoughts; it still wasn’t right. I went back to the keyboard for another rewrite and this time I asked an established author for her opinion. She was very direct, but I was not comfortable with her writing style criticisms. After thinking about the story again, I suddenly found my own voice. Yes, I would write the story from a young girl’s point of view, in this case a great-granddaughter. Let Bubbe explain the “evolution” of Bat Mitzvah of the women in the child’s family! Let the child dream about this event for Bubbe! Let Bubbe imagine herself as a Bat Mitzvah! And of course, let all the great-grandchildren take part! The illustrator, Valeria Cis, captured all these scenes in vibrant, expressive illustrations.
My mother, on the other hand, has a different story to tell of her Bat Mitzvah experience. While reluctant at first to even consider such an idea, she pondered it and she decided to give it a try. The studying, at the very least, would keep her mind sharp. She was, in the end, pleasantly surprised. She was affected by the remarkable young women in her class. Many were Jews by Choice, all juggling family and professional obligations at the same time. They came with a curiosity, a modern world outlook and an intense spirituality. Esther came to the group with all the values of a traditional Jewish upbringing, living a full, rich, Jewish life. She tenderly imparted so much to the group – her Jewish knowledge, her hands-on “recipe” for Jewish living, and the wisdom of her years. She was a wonderful role model for each and every woman in the class. On their Bat Mitzvah day, not only did these women prove their Jewish learning to all their family and friends, but they gracefully showed their respect for each other. What a wonderful example for Bubbe’s grandchildren and great-grandchildren to emulate!
Mazal Tov to Bubbe and to the b’not mitzvah on this milestone!"